Un-synchronised Feelings

Feelings cant be explained. I think i've said this before. Today, I learnt another thing abt feelings. The right feeling with the right amount of intensity does not come at the same time.

For example, a friend whom you are not really close to treats u like a gd friend while u treat her llike an acquaintance. This friend has a more intense feeling towards you, while ur level of intensity isn't that high. It's a mis-matched friendship that usually won't work out.

Jus like relationships. My fren once told me b4 tt two person in love hardly love each other equally much. When he loves u a lot, ur feelings towards him is just so-so. But just when u start to get touched by his actions, and ur feelings start to intensify, his oh-u-r-so-impt-to-me feelings fades away. Then there you are, trying to get his feelings back again, but it just WON'T work.

Why cant the world be a simplier world? A world where our feelings are more synchronised? Just when i thought it was going well, reality hits me hard in my face. Well, the world just dont work the correct way.