THE second chance

You and I have made mistakes before.

Did silly things in the spur of the moment and regret it a second later.

For some, they realise their mistakes much later.

Should we give them a second chance?

Afterall, if someone else hadnt give u a chance after u made a mistake,

well, you probably wont be wat u r now.

But then again, sometimes, it jus isnt that easy to give someone a second chance.

Why?

It boils down down to selfishness i guess.

We are just afraid that the other party will hurt us again.

Or we jus want to get back at the other person, make him or her regret what he/she did and be remorseful for the rest of their lives.

We think of ourselves first before others.

Though some of you will argue this is inevitable after someone has hurt you.

That's so cruel, hor?

But then again, some people really don't deserve a second chance.

Many times, we wont know who deserves or dont deserve a second chance.

We give the wrong people second chances.

So we end up hurting ourselves.

That's why friends n family dont want you to give him or her a second chance.

We then arrive at another problem.

Because we do not want our friends and family to be upset over wrong decisions that we might possibly make,

We end up not giving deserving people second chances.

很乱！

人生有许多的无奈。

Well , I guess we should follow our hearts and not worry about how others judge us.

If you dont give that person another chance,

you could be the one living in regret and remorse.