Why?

Today, when i was on the bus, this question suddenly resurfaced in my mind.

Why is there no one ACTIVELY interested in me?

Yes, i remembered that i attributed this to nash equilibrium.

But, I think there is more to that.

I look at the friends and friends of friends around me.

Not everyone is chio, some are only average looking, but they have guys swamping around them!

Even if not so, the guys chasing them use all sorts of methods to win their hearts!

Buy flowers.. expensive dinner.. buy things tt they said they like in passing.. do powerpoint sildeshows.. romantic confessions etc etc etc.

Why i dun have?????

What exactly is wrong with me???

I thought real hard about this question, and of course lar, i arrived at an answer.

I am not like other girls. If you like, you can call me unique or special. But probably the word to describe me is weird.

For a guy to go after a girl, firstly, the girl must be friendly, or at least nice.

Secondly, the girl has to give the guy the feeling that she seems keen or interested in him.

Thirdly, the girl must be willing to go out with the guy when he asks her out.

Fourthly, the girl must be initiative also.

I am not nice. Nor am i interested in guys whom i just got to know. And i NEVER go out with guys i dun have a tinge of feelings for. Neither am i initiative.

Since i am none of the above mentioned, guys dont dare to chase me issit?

But, issit my problem??? Am i hard to please??

Oh well. It you guys' losses ANYWAY.

So, i dun think highly of girls who have so many guys worshippping them at their feet.

It just goes to show that they are ultra friendly to guys, toy with guys' feelings by being nice n giving the wrong impression. Make the guys like her den do all sorts of things for her den in the end tell them she treat them as friends. Den still wan to remain friends and be nice and continue to twirl the guy around their fingers. Pui.

Why? Why must girls do all these? For wad? For the kick of it? Very fun meh? I despise such girls.