Life now.

Sighs. As most of you might know, newly weds are often very afraid of their parents or relatives asking them "eh, 你们几时要生孩子？"

But because you are not in their shoes, you dunno how dreadful that question is.

BUT. I know. Being unemployed now, I am so sian when my relatives come to my place and ask "eh, 找到工作了吗？" Errr... I know they are concerned, but I also cant help but feel that there is a certain element of kaypoh-ness in them. I am seriously ACTIVELY looking for a job, but hey, it ain't that easy okay. Even if I wanna slack for a while before working, I don't think it sounds appropriate to let them know that I am enjoying the life of a slacker.

Just like married couples. I am sure they are also actively trying, but if the baby doesn't want to come, means it won't come. Or if they have plans to have a baby later, it doesn't seem right to tell relatives or parents that!

Sighs I totally dun look forward to family gatherings at all.

=((((